How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losing 20kg is a goal.

That's it for today.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Ask yourself:

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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What I need from you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why is pornography still alive and not illegal? Why doesn’t the government do about tricking women into them?

Does not procrastinate.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Has anyone ever made you take off your shirt?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.